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About Candace Crabtree

I'm Candace, just a messed up mama in need of God's fresh, new mercies daily ~ moment by moment! My husband and I live in East Tennessee with our 3 children ages 12, 11 and 9yrs. In addition to spending time with my family, I enjoy reading great books, blogging, our church, worship music, playing piano, having coffee with a friend and fresh flowers on my kitchen table.

The Busy Mom’s Favorite Devotionals

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As a mom that loves reading, devotion titles have always been one of my favorite things to read. I have quite the pile next to my bed, and I choose different ones to read at different seasons in my life.  In my mind, devotionals do not replace time in God’s Word. Most of the time, they draw me into passages that I might not have read otherwise, which I love.

One of my favorite things about devotion titles is that if you’re in a rush, Busy Mom, you can still glean a perfectly wonderful word from the Lord in just a few minutes! Again, I don’t recommend replacing your study time in the Word. But, leave a devotional in the bathroom {aka escape room,} for when you need a moment to calm down and breathe. Leave another on the kitchen counter or window sill for when you’re washing that millionth dish, you can prop it open with a small easel if you like! Sometimes when I go about my day, I lose my focus. Who am I kidding? This happens daily! But, keeping devotion books and something like Scripture memory cards or index cards laying around my house really does help draw me back to God.

I’m going to share two of my all time favorite devotional titles with you here. I would LOVE to hear what your favorites are! I’m sure we will all come to a time when we need a new one on our nightstand.

Five Favorite Devotion Books For Moms

1. Keep A Quiet Heart by Elisabeth Elliot.  Elisabeth Elliot happens to be one of my all time favorite authors, and this devotional of hers definitely ranks as one of the best. “Are you as often tempted as I am to doubt the effectiveness of prayer? But Jesus prayed. He told us to pray. We can be sure that the answer will come, and it will be good. If it is not exactly what we expected, chances are we were not asking for quite the right thing. Our heavenly Father hears the prayer, but wants to give us bread rather than stones.” 

2. More Precious Than Silver by Joni Eareckson Tada. If you struggle at all, if there are trials in your life that seem insurmountable, you should definitely pick up a book by Joni Eareckson Tada, because without a doubt, she has been through the fire; her wisdom and encouragement are absolutely beautiful. Speaking of Proverbs 2, Joni shares, “Why would the Bible make such a big deal about something that is in a way already ours? Why would it send us off searching for God and his wisdom, when we’ve already found God? The Holy Spirit dwelling within us shows that God has placed a hidden treasure in us. Face it: You and I have within our grasp, even inside us, a gold mine. But it’s a gold mine of possibilities. God asks us to roll up our sleeves and dig for all those riches he’s given us.” I don’t now about you, but I always need encouragement to GET in the Word and STAY in the Word!!

Busy moms, no matter what season you find yourself in…maybe you have babies and toddlers underfoot and the only 3 minutes you can find to read a devotional is in the bathroom. I say, go for it! Use that time wisely and get filled up when you can!! Maybe you find yourself with older kids, running every different direction, and you are in the car a lot. Leave a book in the mini-van and pull it out while you wait in the school pick-up line. Maybe you’re struggling through your first season as an empty nester. You, Beloved, have the blessing of unlimited time to dig in to the treasures of God’s Word and I promise you, dear one, He has a wealth there waiting for you!

He has gifts and blessings and encouragement waiting for each of us in those quiet {or not-so-quiet} moments when we choose to spend a moment with Him instead of complaining. I hope and pray you will find one of these recommendations just what you need and that your time with Him will be sweet and refreshing.

What are your favorite devotionals, Busy Moms?

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The Busy Mom’s Favorites {Online Grocery Shopping}

Busy Mom's Favorite Groceries To Buy Online

Confession: I’m an Amazon Subscribe and Save junkie.  I’m sort of new to thew whole online grocery thing (about a year now) but I have tell you:  I have not run out of TP in a year. And my family thinks I’m some sort of cereal rock star, since we’re never out now and I can serve it for dinner if I need to.  (Don’t judge.)  Imagine my sheer joy when my friend and Busy Mom writer, Candace, said that she was doing the SAME THING!  We are like sisters from another mother! As a fellow Subscribe and Saver, Candace knows the power and convenience of SS&S.  Of course there’s always the fact that it saves us both from impulse shopping means we’ve got more money left to buy things we really want, like—well, we can get those on Amazon, too. My new favorite thing to get from them are my makeup remover cloths from Neutrogena and my gluten-free snack bars. Mmm.  If you haven’t subscribed yet, read on and see what you can do to same time and money using Amazon. We think you’ll be an ASSJ before you know it!
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With a new school year upon us, most of us busy moms are about to get even busier! That is why I LOVE buying as many groceries online as I possibly can! I’ve been purchasing online, through Amazon’s Subscribe and Save program, for over a year now, and I can say it is WONDERFUL to have groceries and household goods delivered straight to your front porch! No shipping with Amazon Prime!

First of all, just a little tip to get you started. When you get to Amazon’s main page, scroll over to “Shop By Department” and a list of departments should pop up, then click on Health, Beauty and Grocery. After that you should see a “Subscribe and Save” section. This is where you want to find what items are available for Subscribe and Save. Unfortunately not every item you may want to purchase can be a subscription item, so you just have to look around and find things that are available by subscription.

Next, when you come to an item you want to purchase or subscribe to, look over to the right hand side of the screen and see the price difference! YAY! Notice the arrow on the picture below, this is where you can see 1) if an item is available for Subscribe and Save and 2) what you will be saving by subscribing monthly to this item!

Busy Mom's Favorite Groceries To Buy Online

You do get to choose how often you will receive your item! You can choose monthly, every 2 months, up to every 6 months! Also, you can cancel your subscriptions at any time, with no charges! It’s super easy and very wonderful. 🙂 Finally, you need to order FIVE items to come monthly to your home to get the FULL savings of 15% off your order, so keep that in mind also!

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So, what do I order on Amazon’s Subscribe and Save program?

This Busy Mom’s Favorite Groceries To Purchase Online

1. Clif Bars. We love these for days we need to pack lunches (which hasn’t been a daily thing) or we are going on a field trip or just need protein we can take in the car. These babies are expensive if you purchase just one of them at Walmart! Notice they are $13.49 regularly, but if you subscribe to them you pay $11.47.

2. Maple Syrup. We have used various brands over the years, if they run out of one brand or no longer offer it for Subscribe and Save, you can search and find another brand.

3. Shampoo. I like buying big bottles that last longer. Search for brands you use to see if you can save on shampoo!

4. Fruit Leathers. I love buying healthier snacks online in bulk. I live in a tiny town and can’t find these locally, so it’s nice to just get them delivered to my door instead of driving an hour for them!

5. K-cups. Woot! Instead of paying .50 per cup, you can pay .31 cents per k-cup. These that I have found are biodegradable, so earth friendly with a softer pouch on the bottom, but they work great in my Keurig! And they are so much cheaper. (Of course, if you want to be even cheaper, use the refillable k-cup and put in coffee out of a can each morning. We have used the Ecobrew for several years now and it works great!)

6. Toilet paper. We are not picky about our toilet paper, EXCEPT I don’t like the super thin stuff, so this is about halfway between the super thin and the quilted thick stuff.

7. Hairspray. Now, before you jump all over me, I know not everyone wants special types of hair products. {grin} But if you do, one way to save on them is to order online. Just take a look to see if your favorite brands are any cheaper on amazon!

8. Cleaning Supplies. These Clorox Wipes happen to be $1 cheaper than our Walmart!

9. Diapers & Wipes. We are out of the diaper stage, but if you are currently there, Amazon has a program called the Amazon Mom and you can get 20% off your diapers! Yippee!

10. Gluten Free Products. This is another item that we can’t find a lot of in our tiny town. So, if you eat any type of specialty item or health food, I would highly recommend searching Amazon!

11. Vitamins & Supplements. Things like probiotics, herbal supplements, cleanses, protein powder, etc, may be cheaper by ordering online and subscribing.

Busy moms, I hope this has helped you figure out a few ways to save your MONEY and your TIME in the coming months! I’ve been ordering this way for quite awhile now and am happy to answer any questions you may have in the comment section!  Happy Saving!

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10 Ideas For Celebrating Back To School!

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Can you believe it is that time of year? Again? Here in East Tennessee kids are headed back to school the first full week of August! Yikes! What about you? Are you gearing up for another homeschool year? Kids getting ready to head back in your area also? I am one of those moms that loves to celebrate EVERYTHING! I love a reason for cupcakes or balloons. Don’t get me wrong, my simple celebrations aren’t always Pinterest-perfect, but celebrations don’t have to be! Adding one of these simple ideas sometime the week before school starts will help to create some positive, wonderful memories for your family as you start a new school year!

1. Snap a few special pictures. Use this list to make sure you don’t miss any special back-to-school moments. I love these sidewalk shots using chalk to write their grade level.

2. Bake a fun treat together. (Or one to take to your new teacher and classmates!) Try these adorable apple-cinnamon back-to-school cupcakes! And here are a few healthier options like fruit kabobs and apple sandwiches or these adorable cheese stick pencils!

3. Read a sweet book together. Here are a few back-to-school picture books to share with your kids: My Brave Year of Firsts by Jamie Lee Curtis, Chopsticks by Amy Rosenthal, Miss Bindergarten Gets Ready for Kindergarten by Joseph Slate, How Do Dinosaurs Go To School? by Jane Yolen.

4. Have a good-bye to summer party. Have one last hooray! One last sleepover, one last visit to the water park, invite friends over, etc. Making it a “last time” possibly in the week before school starts could seem a bit sad, but I think it’s just making it more special and making memories. Focus on the positive.

5. Make a gift for the new teacher. Even if that teacher is YOU. I like gifts, don’t you? 🙂 What about a pencil vase/jar made out of crayons? This ruler crate/basket is adorable. This pencil wreath would be a perfect back-to-school gift for a new teacher! Or, if the teacher is you, a pedicure or gift card to Starbucks may be more to your liking!

6. Go back to school shopping. Even if you don’t leave your house to school, a new outfit or a new pack of crayons is always exciting!

7. Fill out an interview with each child, an “all about me” type questionnaire that makes a great keepsake. Here is a great printable interview already made for you. Scroll down on this post for another colorful interview printable.

8. Print a few lunchbox notes to encourage your kids throughout the year. You can always place these notes at their place at the table if you’re at home, or on their pillow! I think if I print some out ahead of time I might be more inclined to use them through the year. Here are a few printable notes you can give to your kids! And a few more for you to choose from.

9. Ask your kids for THEIR ideas! They may have a fun idea for your family to try out in the last days before you start your school year back up. Kids are often a lot more creative than we are.  My kids would likely say, “Let’s go to Dollywood one more time!” or “Let’s have ice cream for supper!”

10. Pray together. Pray for your students, their teachers, their friends, their school, our country. Pray that our families can be a light to the world in whatever school setting they attend.

Have a great school year, Busy Moms!! 

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Planning Your Homeschool Year

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It’s that time of year, busy moms!! I put together a list of resources for you here that will help you with ALL aspects of planning your homeschool year!

Grab a cup of coffee or a glass of sweet tea and be inspired as you read through these links! Bookmark this page to come back to when you’re needing fresh inspiration and encouragement!

Homeschool Inspiration

Now that you’re inspired, here is some practical help for you. Help with the actual PLANNING: choosing curriculum, types of learning, priorities and goals!

Homeschooling Planning Helps

Lastly, encouragement for your mama’s heart. We all know that there will be bad days. When those days come, carve out some time for prayer and keep coming back to this page for snippets of encouragement!

When Homeschooling is Hard

Well, I hope you’re as inspired as I am! This page should keep you busy reading and being inspired for weeks to come! From the Busy Mom Writers, we hope and pray your coming school year is FULL TO THE BRIM of joy and learning together as you follow the path Jesus has for your family!

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Homemade Citrus Dusting Spray

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Over the weekend I realized I was out of my favorite lemony smelling dusting spray. I really, really hate running to the store for one thing like that…and I really wanted to get my living room clean right.that.moment. {Do you have manic cleaning sessions, too? Where all of a sudden your house looks disgusting and you.must.clean.it?}

So, where else to turn but Pinterest to find a recipe for your own dusting spray!? Voila! Of course, being the tweaker that I am, I had to tweak the recipe just a bit to get it how I liked it. But, so far, so good on the citrusy smelling, clean living room! I love making my own cleaners and hygiene products, you might remember I shared a citrus all purpose cleaner here at The Busy Mom, but I have a few other recipes on my blog, too!

Homemade Citrus Dusting Spray

You need:

  • empty spray bottle
  • 2 cups water
  • 3/4 cup white vinegar
  • 3-4 T olive oil
  • 10 drops lemon essential oil
  • 10 drops orange essential oil {I love the combo of lemon AND orange but you could use any combination of oils or scents that you love!}

I usually use warm water when mixing things like this, but not hot, for the benefit of the oils. Also, I shook mine a few times to get the oil mixed a little better. Just shake as you use.

So, the only negative to this homemade spray is that now I have no excuse not to dust. 🙂 Good thing I have several children that are old enough for this chore now!

Happy dusting, busy moms!

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Feeling Anxious and Overwhelmed?

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As moms, it can seem impossible to go a day without feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or worried about our families and children. I have a tendency toward depression, which lends itself to anxiety also…so for my personality it may be even more so drawn that direction. Regardless of our personalities, though, God’s Word does give us the answers to our anxiety problems.

God’s Word doesn’t give us a formula, it leads us to a relationship. There are no 3 easy steps to getting through anxiety and depression in our lives, but He gives us the grace of Himself in us. Christ in me, the hope of glory!

I believe that this passage in Philippians, one of my all time favorites, gives us one of the major keys to having peace in difficult times of anxiety. Does the Lord promise to take our problems away? No. Does the Lord tell us this life will be easy? No.

But, He does promise us Himself and His peace. And that peace, friends? That peace is beyond our understanding. The hardest moments of our lives don’t magically disappear…but that peace transcends anything on this earth that we can see, touch or feel.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7

This verse gives us the key…do you see it? Prayer brings peace. In everything, everything, present your requests to God ~ with thanksgiving ~ AND THE PEACE OF GOD will guard your heart and your mind!!

Feeling anxious? Pray. Speak the name of Jesus if you have no other words.

Did you catch the other key to peace? First, we pray about everything. But, when we are praying, pray with thanksgiving.

Feeling overwhelmed with everything on your plate? Start by thanking God for every little thing you can think of.

Worried about your prodigal or sick child? Name aloud the things you can find to be thankful for. As you names your blessings, pray. Keep on praying. As you pray, He will fill your heart with His peace. That peace only comes from Him. That peace only comes when we spend time with Him. That peace comes as a result of our relationship, not a formula.

I don’t know about you, but I’m guilty of trying to rid myself of anxiety as quickly as possible instead of turning to the one place where peace is promised. Getting rid of it is not always God’s plan…giving you peace in the midst of the struggle is what He offers.

Sweet friends, I’ve been so overwhelmed lately myself, this message is for me as much as it is for you. I hope you will join me in spending more time on our knees than looking for ways out of our circumstances.

Prayer and thanksgiving bring peace. That sweet, sweet fellowship with the Lover of our souls fills us up with peace indescribable. I’ve seen it in my own life time and time again. I know He will do the same for you!

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An Invitation To Dinner

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“The heart of hospitality is when people leave your home, they should feel better about themselves, not better about you.” Shauna Niequist 

I’m an introvert through and through. I’m the last person that should be giving hospitality advice. So, I won’t. I won’t give you advice. I will just share what God has allowed to happen in my home and in my heart recently.

Over the last 6 weeks we’ve been blessed to have several families into our home. This picture below was preparation for one of those evenings.

Look at this picture of my non-Pinterest-worthy table setting. Look closely at those chairs. They don’t match. They’re old. Their stained. For a split second I found myself thinking, “What am I thinking? I don’t even have enough chairs at this table for everyone that is coming?!” 

But, thankfully, God intervened.

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I think it is no accident that we learn of hospitality in the book of Acts, the earliest of churches.

“They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer…Everyday they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.” Acts 2:42, 46-47. 

They met at the temple, yes, but they also met regularly in each other’s homes. All Scripture is God breathed and useful…the writer of Acts mentions that they met in homes for a reason. And I think that reason is just as vital today as it was in the days of the early church.

But, hold up…wait a minute…I know what you’re thinking. My house isn’t big enough! (Mine, either, actually!) My chairs don’t match! I’m not a good cook! (Me, either! In fact, I hate cooking so much recently that I wrote a post called 20 meals for moms who hate cooking!) I just don’t know about this. I’m just not cut out for this.

I’m with you. I hear you. And here is what I want to tell you…

Take a chance. Do it anyway. Call a family and invite them over for dinner. Just do it. Take a risk. Step out of your comfort zone and bless another family. You don’t even have to cook, actually! Have pizza! Order Chinese! The point is not the food.

I can almost guarantee you will be thankful that you did. Do you know why??

We need each other. 

To be quite honest, we need to see each other’s homes in all their non-Pinterest glory. We need to see the crumbs on the floor. We need to see that there are others out there that don’t dust weekly. We need to know that not everyone has matching dishes, coordinating everything and a family chef who does all the cooking. {pssst… if you have a personal chef, don’t tell me, I don’t want to know.} 

Hospitality is not about making your house look good so that others can be impressed. Hospitality is about letting people into your not-perfect home and your not-perfect life so that you can bless and encourage one another.

We need the fellowship, the encouragement, the memories, the conversations around the table more than we need the Pinterest-laden kitchen full of perfect recipes and coordinating dinnerware.

“Hospitality is not about inviting people into our perfect homes, it is all about inviting people into our imperfect hearts.” Ruth Soukup

So, busy moms, what are you waiting for? Don’t try to convince yourself that you’re too busy to invite a friend over for coffee or a family over for dinner. Don’t talk yourself out of a blessing!! Go ahead! Who can you call this week?? I encourage you to go for it! You won’t regret it!

And if, like me, you tend to overthink everything and will try to talk yourself out of this, speak this truth aloud to yourself: My friends want to come over because they want to spend time with me and my family, NOT because I have a perfect home or a perfect table setting. It’s the truth, I promise.

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