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Happy Anniversary To Me! Sharing What We’ve Learned in 27 Years

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Noted Post to Read: 25 Ways to Stay Married for 25 Years

Heidi St John Guide to Romance
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25 Secrets to a Lasting Marriage – Good marriages don’t just happen. They’re built, nurtured and protected. They start with love and longing and make the distance through dedication and sticky resolve, and today I’m sharing 25 ways to stay married for 25 years.

4 Ways to Invest in Your Marriage Today – I love being married. I really do. But it’s not always easy and it always requires nurturing.  I speak to moms all the time about making their marriage the priority relationship at home because the fact is simply this: most marriages do not end because of adultery … they end because of neglect.

 Over 24 years of marriage, I have learned some valuable lessons.  I’m still learning, truthfully. Every time I make a mistake or stumble, it’s an opportunity to learn something. 🙂  Here are four things I have found to be foundational in my marriage—and they’re things you can start doing TODAY.

Biblical Discernment in an Unbiblical Age: Part 3 of a 4-week Podcast Bible Study with Heidi St. John

There are many issues in our culture today that can be argued or explained with emotional reasoning, but our emotions often don’t lead us in a Biblical direction.  It’s critical that we know how to discern right and wrong through a Biblical lens, so we can pass that discernment on to our children as we nurture them in the ways of the Lord.  Join me for week 3/4 in our podcast-led Bible Study as we search the Scripture for practical ways to do this.

Mentioned in Podcast and resources

  • YouTube Video with Rob Bell and Oprah Winfrey
  • Firmly Planted Family Bible Study
    • We all agree that teaching our children the life-changing truths of the Bible is one of our most important jobs as parents. But where do we begin? How do we consistently explore God’s Word in a way that helps our children understand and apply the core truths of biblical teaching in their own lives? The Firmly Planted Family Series is divided into ten-week studies and is your key to making sense of the Bible—even if you’re learning right along with your children. Each lesson provides a core idea, a simple narrative, memory verses and discussion questions for children of all ages. And the companion student workbook is filled with age-appropriate, full-color, reproducible activities for children of any age!
  • Victory in Spiritual Warfare: Outfitting Yourself for the Battle
    • Dr. Tony Evans, one of the most respected church leaders in the country, is the founder and senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, a thriving congregation of 8000. In this timely, unique exploration of spiritual warfare, Dr. Evans unveils a simple yet radical truth: every struggle and conflict faced in the physical realm has its root in the spiritual realm.
      With passion and clarity, Dr. Evans demystifies spiritual warfare so that readers can tackle challenges and obstacles with spiritual power―God’s authority!
  • Fool’s Gold?: Discerning Truth in an Age of Error edited by Dr. John MacArthur
    • In an age of open-mindedness, many believers accept too much with too little discernment, resulting in great confusion and compromise. But God’s Word makes it clear that not everything that glitters is gold. False teaching is at every turn, and the temptation to embrace it is great. As God’s people we are called to sift through the overwhelming number of traditions and trends and use the truth of Scripture to determine which are the true treasures-and which are “fool’s gold.”
      General editor John MacArthur and the contributors of this uncompromising book define the principles of biblical discernment and use them to address several contemporary Christian issues. They provide straightforward, biblical critiques of some popular but unfortunate Christian trends, such as watered-down preaching and doctrinally questionable best-selling books. Dr. MacArthur ends with a practical plan for cultivating discernment in the Christian life.
      It is the duty of every Christian-not just pastors and elders-to follow the biblical command to cling to what is good and to reject what is not. This book will equip you with a foundation for biblical discernment that will enable you to make careful distinctions in your thinking about truth.

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Practical Help for the Overwhelmed Woman – Part 2 of 2

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The election, child-rearing, others’ expectations, our own expectations and personal worries of these days are all enough to cause us to feel overwhelmed on a daily basis, but that’s not at all what The Lord would have for us if He had His way! There are three practical things we can do to avoid being overwhelmed, and they’re easy to implement.  Don’t miss the practical application in part 2 of this 2 part series.

Scriptures Mentioned

Psalm 18:3,6

Jeremiah 29:11

 

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Podcasts and Posts from The Busy Mom

When Pressure Mounts – post – In the end, we have two choices to make as we navigate the uncertain waters of this world: we can trust Him or we can trust ourselves. If we trust Him, the Bible says our trust is well-placed.

Courageous Mothering: Encouragement for the Weary Mom – podcast – There are so many things pulling at mothers in this generation—the tug-of-war over our hearts is intentional. Fear, distractions, worry. Satan’s goal is to distract moms from what really matters—the bringing up of our children. While the world will tell you to mother your kids from your own strength—God has another way! He wants to replace your weakness with His strength in a beautiful exchange. Your job has never been more important than it is right now.

How Busy is Too Busy? -Life is busy and often there is no end in sight. Join Heidi and Durenda as they help sort out how busy really is just too busy.

Busy Seasons and Weary Souls – God doesn’t clearly tell us in his Word what is too much or too little when it comes to busyness. That’s something we each have to walk out with him. What He does tell us though, is that He wants us to be about HIS business…His agenda. In other words, to be led by the Holy Spirit. Being too busy is only okay if it’s what He wants us to do.

Resources

Heidi St John Homeschooling Guide to Daylight

Crazy Busy: A Mercifully Short Book about a (Really) Big Problem by Kevin DeYoung – I’M TOO BUSY!” We’ve all heard it. We’ve all said it. All too often, busyness gets the best of us.  Just one look at our jam-packed schedules tells us how hard it can be to strike a well-reasoned balance between doing nothing and doing it all.  That’s why award-winning author and pastor Kevin DeYoung addresses the busyness problem head on in his newest book, Crazy Busy — and not with the typical arsenal of time management tips, but rather with the biblical tools we need to get to the source of the issue and pull the problem out by the roots.  Highly practical and super short, Crazy Busy will help you put an end to “busyness as usual.”

The Happiness Dare – No matter who you are or how you feel, chances are you would answer yes. And Jennifer Dukes Lee was no different. For years, she wrestled with a constant nagging sense that she wasn’t as happy as she could be. At the same time, she felt guilty for wanting something so “shallow.” After all, doesn’t God only care that we find joy in our circumstances? Or is it possible that God really does want us to be happy?

Determined to get answers, Jennifer embarked on a quest to find out whether our happiness matters to God and, if so, how to pursue it in a way that pleases him.

In The Happiness Dare, you’ll learn what she discovered, including how to:
Understand the five happiness styles and maximize yours
Overcome the four biggest obstacles that stand in the way of your happiness
Find your happiness sweet spot―the place, relationship, or activity that gives you the greatest sense of well-being
Discover what you can do in just five minutes a day to be happier.

 

Practical Help for the Overwhelmed Woman – Part 1 of 2

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The election, child-rearing, others’ expectations, our own expectations and personal worries of these days are all enough to cause us to feel overwhelmed on a daily basis, but that’s not at all what The Lord would have for us if He had His way! He has written notes in His word right to our overwhelmed hearts, and we’re going through some specific scriptures about this today in part 1 of this series.

Scriptures Mentioned in Podcast

Psalm 62:1

Psalm 142:3

Isaiah 40:28

John 14:1

Nehemiah 8:10

Psalm 28:7

Psalm 37:5

Psalm 37:23

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Podcasts and Posts from The Busy Mom

When Pressure Mounts – post – In the end, we have two choices to make as we navigate the uncertain waters of this world: we can trust Him or we can trust ourselves. If we trust Him, the Bible says our trust is well-placed.

Courageous Mothering: Encouragement for the Weary Mom – podcast – There are so many things pulling at mothers in this generation—the tug-of-war over our hearts is intentional. Fear, distractions, worry. Satan’s goal is to distract moms from what really matters—the bringing up of our children. While the world will tell you to mother your kids from your own strength—God has another way! He wants to replace your weakness with His strength in a beautiful exchange. Your job has never been more important than it is right now.

A Spiritual Battle – podcast – The Bible says we do not struggle against flesh and blood, we are engaged in a spiritual battle. There really is wickedness in this world, so we need to be looking at the world with spiritual eyes. We cannot fight this spiritual battle using a carnal weapons like manipulation or unkind words. We need to be using the weapons of prayer and application of the Word of God. Those are the weapons we use to engage in spiritual warfare! We read in Ephesians 6 that we are to put on the belt of truth and buckle it around our waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and fit our feet with the gospel of peace. God is telling us over and over again that the battle we fight is a spiritual battle.

A Powerful Partnership – post – God gives children to us as “arrows” in the hands of a warrior.  That makes you a warrior, busy mom!  And you’re not just a run-of-the-mill warrior, either—you are an archer.  You’re in the arrow-launching business!

Resources

Spiritual Protection for Your Children by Neil T Anderson – How do parents help their children find their own spiritual freedom, allowing them to grow in independence and strength in Christ? Pete and Sue Vander Hook, a typical Christian pastor and his family, learned the hard way how the enemy can infiltrate a seemingly secure Christian home and wreak havoc on a family. It details their dramatic journey and shows how parents can provide a protective covering for their home. Neil Anderson then provides follow-up steps on how to take authority of your home and secure your family’s spiritual well-being. Spiritual Protection for Your Children also provides “The Steps to Freedom” adapted for use with 0-4 year olds (i.e. how to take authority on behalf of your preschool age child), 5-8 year olds; and 9-12 years olds

Fervent: A Woman’s Battle Plan to Serious, Specific and Strategic Prayer by Priscilla Shirer – You have an enemy . . . and he’s dead set on destroying all you hold dear and keeping you from experiencing abundant life in Christ. What’s more, his approach to disrupting your life and discrediting your faith isn’t general or generic, not a one-size-fits-all. It’s specific. Personalized. Targeted.   So this book is your chance to strike back. With prayer. With a weapon that really works. Each chapter will guide you in crafting prayer strategies that hit the enemy where it hurts, letting him know you’re on to him and that you won’t back down. Because with every new strategy you build, you’re turning the fiercest battles of life into precise strikes against him and his handiwork, each one infused with the power of God’s Spirit.

Biblical Discernment in an Unbiblical Age: Part 2 of a 4-week Podcast Bible Study with Heidi St. John

Today we’re talking about discernment – what it means and how to learn to filter everything around us as it is filtered through the word of God. Are we different in our churches? In our parenting? In our daily walk? It matters, women. Let’s talk about it today.


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The Ugliness of Rejection and Learning to Not Let it Define You, Guest Lysa Terkeurst – Part 2

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lysaLysa TerKeurst is the New York Times bestselling author of The Best Yes. She is president of Proverbs 31 Ministries and writes from her sticky farm table in North Carolina. She still has a crush on her husband, Art, who she’s been married to for twenty-four years. They deeply treasure every minute they can get with their four married kids and one teenager who still keeps them very young. Connect with her at www.LysaTerKeurst.com.

 

Rejection steals the best of who I am by reinforcing the worst of what’s been said to me.

Uninvited helps us realize the more fully we invite God in, the less we will fecover_smallel uninvited by others.

In our highly filtered, unrealistically edited, perfection projecting social-media-driven world, women are feeling the pains of rejection more than ever before.

The truth is, rejection affects us all way more than we’d like to admit. And too often, the hurts of our past are affecting our present more than we realize. According to TerKeurst, “We are all either trying to get healing from past rejection, dealing with a present rejection, or fearing that an unexpected rejection is just around the corner.”

Rejection isn’t just an emotion we feel, it’s a message that’s sent to the core of who we are, causing us to believe lies about ourselves, others, and God.

Uninvited tells the story of the enemy’s schemes to make us feel less than, left out, and lonely. His lies can cripple our courage, dismantle our dreams, and blind us to the beauty of God’s love; but TerKeurst reminds us that the fullness of God can be found in the radical act of “living loved”—in finally seeing ourselves the way God does, as children who were made to take hold of the love He freely gives.

Uninvited invites us to a place of abundance, grace, and hope—where God knows every part of us, and loves us just the same. With a mix of biblical depth, gut-honest vulnerability, refreshing wit, and chapters like “There’s a Lady at the Gym Who Hates Me,” “Hello, My Name Is Trust Issues,” and “Ten Things You Must Remember When Rejected,” TerKeurst empowers readers with practical strategies for embracing rejection in a whole new way.

In Uninvited, readers will learn how to:

Stop feeling left out by believing that even when you are overlooked by others you are handpicked by God.
Change your tendency to either fall apart or control the actions of others by embracing God-honoring ways to process your hurt.
Know exactly what to pray for the next ten days to steady your soul and restore your confidence in the midst of rejection.
Overcome the two core fears that feed your insecurities by understanding the secret of belonging.

Uninvited is a practical guidebook for:

Most of us who have no idea how much past rejections are harming present relationships.
Women who constantly battle feeling left out and less than caused by filter-filled social media.
Singles hurting from failed romantic relationships.
Anyone tending to the scars left by a broken family or an unhealthy friendship or relationship.
College students looking for ways to arm themselves against rejection in a new environment.
Teenagers facing bullies, peer pressure, and self-doubt.
Parents needing to heal from their own rejections before they can help children who are hurting.
Anyone who has dealt with or is currently dealing with a deep hurt.

Through the pages of Uninvited, you will be taken on a journey of finding the acceptance and love you’ve always longed for and start to pick up the pieces that maybe you’ve been trying to put back together for years. You’ll laugh, cry, and best of all discover that with Jesus you are safe, forever accepted, forever held, completely loved, and always invited in.