Shiny, Not-So-Happy People: A Legacy of Legalism

By now, many of you have seen the documentary on the Duggar family, “Shiny Happy People.” As a woman who grew up under spiritual abuse, I am glad to see any form of abuse unearthed and exposed.

Rules without relationship injure people, and the legalistic way in which Gothard and others like him control people using the Bible as their excuse to do so is wrong. However, I believe this was the wrong way to expose it.

This documentary was salivating at the chance to give Christians stones to throw at people — even those who did not deserve it—and that’s exactly what they got. Today I’ll be sharing my thoughts and directing us back to the gospel that changes us. ⁠

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About Heidi St. John

Heidi has been married to her husband Jay since 1989. Together they have seven children and three grandchildren! The St. Johns homeschooled their kids all the way through high school. Heidi is the the author of seven books, host of the popular podcast "Off the Bench," and the founder of MomStrong International, an online community of women learning God's Word and how to apply it to every day life. She and her husband Jay are also the founders of Firmly Planted Family and the Firmly Planted Homeschool Resource Center, located in Vancouver, Washington.