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Today we’re talking about toddlers: how we live with ’em! It’s such a fun age, but without a few things in place can be particularly unpleasant.  Join me for three tips on toddler taming today!

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The Gift of Terrible Two

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Don’t Make Me Count to Three – Do you find yourself threatening, repeating your instructions, or raising your voice in an attempt to get your children to obey? Are you discouraged because it seems you just can t reach the heart of your child? Through personal experience and the practical application of Scripture, Ginger Hubbard encourages and equips moms to reach past the outward behavior of their children and dive deeply into the issues of the heart. Ginger s candid approach will help moms move beyond the frustrations of not knowing how to handle issues of disobedience and into a confident, well-balanced approach to raising their children.

Three Practical Tips to Strengthen Your Marriage (And a Father’s Day Idea!)

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{FOOT RUB MASSAGE GIVEAWAY WITH EACH MELT PURCHASE THROUGH JUNE 19, 2016!}

When I share something, I choose it because I think it is something that will resonate with my audience.  This is that thing. 😉   And with Father’s Day coming up, I have a great idea.  Remember this podcast about creating a partnership that lasts?  I shared this at Valentine’s Day and we had such a great response, we wanted to share it with you again.  So many men are hard to buy for, but a gift that keeps on giving TO BOTH OF YOU is the perfect sort of thing our men like!  This is a brilliant way to show him how much you appreciate all he does for you and your family!

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Melt is a video series that will train you HOW to do massages for each other.  It is appropriately presented (PG!) by Denis and Emma Merkas, clearly presented, easy to squeeze in just 5 minute segments, and best of all, easy to implement!  Don’t miss the Father’s Day Sale good through June 19.
 Take just a sec to see if you think it’s a good fit for the man you are celebrating this Father’s Day!  (And don’t forget, this is probably a gift that will give you something in response… after all, you and your hubby will both learn to give fabulous massages!)

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Check it out and tell me what you think!

~ Heidi

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Genesis 2:22-25

Hebrews 13:4

1 Corinthians 7:2

Romans 8:1
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25 Ways to Stay Married for 25 Years – “Good marriages don’t just happen. They’re built, nurtured and protected. They start with love and longing and make the distance through dedication and sticky resolve…”

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Date Night When You Can’t Leave the House

Becoming a Student of My Husband

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The Busy Mom’s Guide to Romance by Heidi St. John -Do you ever wonder where the girl your husband married went? This book is for every mom who has collapsed into bed at the end of the day, looked into the eyes of her husband and promised “tomorrow” she’d have time for him.  Trouble is, tomorrow finds her more exhausted than the day before.

If you have ever felt caught between the demands of nurturing your children and meeting the needs of your husband, you’re not alone. Read and discover how even a busy homeschool mom can make time to nurture her marriage. It’s not as hard as you think—and more important than you may realize.

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The Marriage Builder by Larry Crabb – Bestselling author Larry Crabb cuts to the heart of the biblical view of marriage: the “one-flesh” relationship. He argues convincingly that the deepest needs of human personality―security and significance―ultimately cannot be satisfied by a marriage partner. We need to turn to the Lord, rather than our spouse, to satisfy our needs. This frees both partners for “soul oneness,” a commitment to minister to our spouse’s needs rather than manipulating them to meet our own needs. With “soul oneness” comes renewed “body oneness,” where couples enjoy sexual pleasure as an expression and outgrowth of a personal relationship.

The Marriage Builder also identifies three building blocks essential to constructing marriage: the grace of God, true marriage commitment, and acceptance of one’s mate. Discussion questions are included to aid couples who want to dig into it and apply the principles to their own lives and marriages. The Marriage Builder is for anyone who longs to transform marriage from trial to triumph

Help! I’m Married to a Homeschool Mom

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Many women have a certain idea of what they think their husband should do as a homeschool dad, and I’ll say it doesn’t usually match what the husband really does. Veteran homeschool moms have learned how to best thrive in that situation and have some practical tips for you today!

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25 Ways to Stay Married for 25 Years – Good marriages don’t just happen. They’re built, nurtured and protected. They start with love and longing and make the distance through dedication and sticky resolve…

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Help! I’m Married to a Homeschooling Mom: Showing Dads How to Meet the Needs of Their Homeschooling Wives – If you are a homeschooler, or are married to one, you know it’s true! This special breed of wife and mother is a largely unsung hero…that is until Todd Wilson decided to raise awareness, raise eyebrows, and raise some laughter. Sprinkled in between the seriously practical side of this book to husbands are Todd’s own humorous cartoons. You’ll need one for every homeschooling friend and church library!

Big Picture Parenting: Don’t Win the Battle, Yet Lose the War

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There are many battles we face as parents that aren’t hills to die on, but the war is for the hearts and minds of our kids.  We have the opportunity to help our kids build a foundation on the rock. Let’s rise to the occasion and make the most of it.

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Scripture

1 Kings 1:1-9

Galatians 6:9

Matthew 7:25
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The Entitlement Cure by John Townsend – Today we live in a culture that says, ‘Life should be easy and work well.’ This attitude, called entitlement, influences our most important institutions: family, business, church, and government. Its devastating effects contribute to relational problems, work ethic issues, and emotional struggles. It comes down to this: People are not getting to where they want to go, because they don’t know how to do life the hard way. Entitlement keeps them from tackling challenges and finding success. But whether readers are struggling with their own sense of entitlement or dealing with someone who acts entitled, The Entitlement Cure will equip them to turn away from a life of mediocrity to a life of engagement, satisfaction, and joy.

Boundaries books by Henry Cloud – Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances — Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions — Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others — Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God’s will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator — Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations…

Age of Opportunity by Paul David Tripp – Paul Tripp uncovers the heart issues that affect parents and their teenage children during the often-chaotic adolescent years. With wit, wisdom, humility, and compassion, he shows parents how to seize the countless opportunities to deepen communication and learn and grow with their teens.

Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Ted Tripp – Written for parents with children of any age, this insightful book provides perspectives and procedures for shepherding your child’s heart into the paths of life. Shepherding a Child’s Heart gives fresh biblical approaches to child rearing.

Grace Based Parenting by Tim Kimmel -Parents in our post-modern world tend to be committed to but anxious about their child-rearing responsibilities. They’ve tried the countless parenting books on the market, but many of these are strident, fear-based books that loving parents instinctively reject, while still searching for direction.

Practical Tips from a Mom of 3 Kids on the Autism Spectrum

Moms of autistic or other special needs kids can feel very alone from symptoms to diagnosis to ongoing care.  My guest today, Wendy Hilton, is a mom of three with special needs kids.  Wendy is one of the Busy Mom Writers and she’s here to encourage you and share some practical tips she’s learned on her journey. Subscribe on iTunes

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WendyProfilePicTBMEditedWendy Hilton is a co-owner of HipHomeschoolMoms.com lives in the South with her wonderful hubby and 3 great special needs kiddos. She’s a Christian, homeschooling, work-from-home mom. She’s homeschooled for 17 years, and I love encouraging moms who homeschool their special needs kids!

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Dear Mom of a Special Needs Mom, You’re Not Alone – Moms of special needs kids can feel very alone from symptoms to diagnosis to ongoing care.  My guest, Wendy Hilton, is a mom of three with special needs kids.  Wendy is one of the Busy Mom Writers and she’s here to encourage you and share her journey.

Caring for Yourself While Caring for Your Special Needs Child – “Looking back, I can see that I wasn’t making myself clear. My family and friends simply thought I needed reassurance and encouragement. They didn’t realize I was warning them that I literally. could. not. keep. going. any. longer. I tried to explain to them in words what I needed, but I couldn’t. I really couldn’t quite admit it to myself, and I certainly couldn’t figure out how to put it into words for someone else to hear. So I gave up. I quit trying to explain it to them. I hung in there…”

Things Not to Say to Moms of Special Needs Kids – “In my almost 20 years as the mom of a severely autistic daughter, I’ve been questioned, judged, accepted, ignored, loved, rejected, and just about everything in between! I’ve also learned a lot. One of the things I like to do whenever possible is help and support other moms of special needs kids. But lately, I’ve realized that a great way to help special needs moms is to share some of my own experiences with moms who don’t…”

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Create a Culture that Celebrates Life – Every life is valued and every special needs child was uniquely created by God and for God’s glory. Our culture does not celebrate life, but our Creator does!

3 Ways to Love on a Mom of a Child With Disabilities – Many of us have friends who have children with disabilities, and we just don’t know how to support them.  Guest Melissa Crabtree and Heidi talk about 3 practical ways to love on these moms. Listen in and see how you can help!

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Dear Mom of a Special Needs Child, You’re Not Alone

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Moms of special needs kids can feel very alone from symptoms to diagnosis to ongoing care.  My guest today, Wendy Hilton, is a mom of three with special needs kids.  Wendy is one of the Busy Mom Writers and she’s here to encourage you and share her journey.

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WendyProfilePicTBMEditedWendy Hilton is a co-owner of HipHomeschoolMoms.com lives in the South with her wonderful hubby and 3 great special needs kiddos. She’s a Christian, homeschooling, work-from-home mom. She’s homeschooled for 17 years, and I love encouraging moms who homeschool their special needs kids!

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Caring for Yourself While Caring for Your Special Needs Child – “Looking back, I can see that I wasn’t making myself clear. My family and friends simply thought I needed reassurance and encouragement. They didn’t realize I was warning them that I literally. could. not. keep. going. any. longer. I tried to explain to them in words what I needed, but I couldn’t. I really couldn’t quite admit it to myself, and I certainly couldn’t figure out how to put it into words for someone else to hear. So I gave up. I quit trying to explain it to them. I hung in there…”

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Things Not to Say to Moms of Special Needs Kids – “In my almost 20 years as the mom of a severely autistic daughter, I’ve been questioned, judged, accepted, ignored, loved, rejected, and just about everything in between! I’ve also learned a lot. One of the things I like to do whenever possible is help and support other moms of special needs kids. But lately, I’ve realized that a great way to help special needs moms is to share some of my own experiences with moms who don’t…”

Create a Culture that Celebrates Life – Every life is valued and every special needs child was uniquely created by God and for God’s glory. Our culture does not celebrate life, but our Creator does!

3 Ways to Love on a Mom of a Child With Disabilities – Many of us have friends who have children with disabilities, and we just don’t know how to support them.  Guest Melissa Crabtree and Heidi talk about 3 practical ways to love on these moms. Listen in and see how you can help!

Are You Wearing the Armor of God?

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Ephesians 6:10-18

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A Spiritual Battle

Dare to be a Daniel: Talking to Your Kids About Standing for the Lord
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The Essential Guide to Spiritual Warfare: Learn to Use Spiritual Weapons; Keep Your Mind and Heart Strong in Christ; Recognize Satan’s Lies and Defend Your Loved Ones – What is spiritual warfare? Who should engage in it and how? How can I protect myself and the ones I love from Satan’s attacks?

In The Essential Guide to Spiritual Warfare, Neil Anderson and Timothy Warner describe the battle between the kingdom of God and the kingdom of darkness, a battle for the minds and hearts of us all. Learn about the importance of having a biblical worldview and how to prepare for the battle you are called to fight. Every step of the way is grounded in the truth of God’s Word about who God is and who you are in Christ.

This battle plan for victory is perfect for those new to the idea of spiritual warfare as well as those who want a basic primer to refresh themselves on the topic.

Victory in Spiritual Warfare: Outfitting Yourself for the Battle

Dr. Tony Evans, one of the most respected church leaders in the country, is the founder and senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, a thriving congregation of 8000. In this timely, unique exploration of spiritual warfare, Dr. Evans unveils a simple yet radical truth: every struggle and conflict faced in the physical realm has its root in the spiritual realm.

With passion and clarity, Dr. Evans demystifies spiritual warfare so that readers can tackle challenges and obstacles with spiritual power―God’s authority!

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