13 thoughts on “The Lie of Gender “Neutrality” and Why I’m Telling My Children the Truth About Their DNA

  1. So few people even touch this subject now. Fear is in the air. People are grateful that you are speaking the truth. May God have mercy on us all.

  2. I literally want to stand up in my living room and clap. There is so much I could comment on but one of my favorite points that you made is that it is really a minuscule percentage of the population that we have cowered to. My husband was having this conversation with one of his employees the other day who doesn’t understand why my husband has such an issue with the laws and the culture accepting this “be who you want to be” mindset. When my husband was pointing out that a tiny fraction of the population was controlling and changing our entire country, his employee was actually very surprised and truly had never even given that any thought. We are being bullied and labeled and accused of hate. It is both infuriating and frightening.

  3. Heidi, back in 1995 my church published a document that was very prophetic, and I think you would really like it. It’s called “The Family: A Proclamation to the World”. You don’t have to agree with the teachings of my church to see the truth in this precious document. The second paragraph lays out that gender is essential as children of God. Back in “95 this was so obvious to most people. It’s amazing how quickly things change.

    WE, THE FIRST PRESIDENCY and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children.

    ALL HUMAN BEINGS—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.

    IN THE PREMORTAL REALM, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshipped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize their divine destiny as heirs of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.

    THE FIRST COMMANDMENT that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God’s commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.

    WE DECLARE the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God’s eternal plan.

    HUSBAND AND WIFE have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. “Children are an heritage of the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.

    THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.

    WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.

    WE CALL UPON responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

  4. Totally agree! So many great points made and supported here.
    The one I’d like to highlight is this: “Having endured a pedophile in my family, I envision pedophiles and sexual predators will dress as women and end up assaulting girls in women’s restrooms because of this law. I doubt I’m alone in my totally rational, non-phobic fear of this scenario.” This has already happened in other states adopting similar laws. I think it was Virginia, but don’t have the reference handy. A man dressed as a woman was using his phone camera as a “Peeping Tom” camera to see under the doors and into the stalls. (I *think* I also read of another incident, but can’t remember the details … sorry.) I Chron. 7:14. Praying for America!

  5. My son’s girlfriend just graduated from the University of Georgia….bless her heart she wants to be a teacher. Anyway in one of classes last year she had to learn about the gender spectrum with the extremes being male or female! I was speechless this is for elementary grades.

  6. Worthy of being re-blogged!

    Thank you for being brave and courageous and speaking the truth. I am really shocked to see such laws being passed without any consideration for the consequences in the long run – knee jerk law passing has never been a wise move.

  7. Look first of all I disagree of you using a quote of the bible to be on of your points, maybe is because I see the bible as a book write by men or just because the catholic church have do a lot of war and inspired the destrution of a lot of knowleged of Latin America tribus, you know all the blood rituals and other pagans things that were says to be the world of the devil when it was the gods of other people. Second, gender and DNA are different things, begin gender a social contrution (you know before in europe men used heels to show social status I believe) and DNA shows in the formation of the body also I don’t see people begin request a blood sample to know their sex, they just get dessinate by ther genitals when they are born, because of that some intersex know is in pubertad or later when they try to make a family by the traditional ways, also there have been cultures around the world with other genders maybe is normal and just those people who didn’t enter in a box where supressed in most countries that’s all, other point while the law you say is for is more for the harrasment that trans people suffer in bathroom also pedophiles tend to attack in the family not random people, while I think the toys ones is pushing it and just put the toys together and that’s all, that they kids decide if what gender the toy has, also forcing a person mm let’s just say a person with XY chromosomas and that feels they are a woman to forces them to act as a man the only thing it will make (if it is a permant thing ‘cuz it could be a phase not this is bad is just trying to know themselve) is to want them to kill themselves because of that corrective therapy have a lot of possibility of death, you know it leaves you empty (well I said that is more from my own experience when I wanted to suicide), while to be say you are phobic by little things I think is bad one should try first see the both sides educate oneselves, also I believe gay marrige is okay ‘cuz humanity is getting to overpopulationand if that makes two people happy who am I to take away the happiness of two stragers, also in my country is not gonna happen soon, ending this I think that one have to see all sides and to that tolerance is good when it doesn’t hurt you what you are tolerating.

    PD: my mother languaje is spanish, so I may have done mistakes, I’m still learning english.also I was writing as things come to my mind so I believe there isn’t a order.

  8. We are not without blame here. Christianity allowed the false Patriarchy of Roman paganism to slip and slither into the Church, turning our husbands into our Masters.

    We ignore that “kephale” (the Greek word for “head” is just about *never* used to mean any sort of top or leadership (this is, in fact, the case in most languages throughout the world, with Roman languages…and English, through exposure to it…being an exception), and put a “chain of command” into our most intimate relationships.

    But our Lord did not intend for any of us to live in chains.

    You are right – girls *did* play with dolls and trucks without anyone blinking…until about age 9 or 10. That’s when the forcible splits began (at least for my generation, I’m only 42).

    Most of us seduced, however temporarily (I am lucky, my stepfather was the voice of reason who said “Ok. You’re a girl who likes guns and guts. So what? Go be Wonder Woman if that’s what works for you, but this “I want to be called Jim” bit is *nuts*”) by the trans culture would have never even entertained the idea if we hadn’t been told we were “defective” for being male but liking “feminine” things or being female but liking/preferring “masculine” things.

    I’m not referring to sexual orientation, that’s a whole other kettle of fish. We need to take “gender” the way of My Little Pony (which shows it for the girls, but not yet for the boys), where Rainbow Dash and Apple Jack are both *admired* “tomboys” with traits normally reserved “for the menfolk” to say the least, and Fluttershy and Rarity are more classically “feminine” — we do NOT need to throw gender out entirely because less than .01% of us are born with genetics that might arguably be called “it” with any sort of scientific accuracy.

    My grand daughter spent several days declaring she was a kitten. I did NOT allow her to put her plate on the floor, or settle for her “licking herself” as if this were suddenly a bath. What is *wrong* with people?

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